Chance
Choice
Change
The 3 C's, trivial to some, but everything to me.
The halt in my blogging journey was mirrored by a halt in my life, my outlook and my motivation. It has been 6 months, but those 6 months have completely been the most vital and significant in my life so far. I took a chance in controlling my choices which provided CHANGE. A change for a better, confident and more healthy me.
I have finally worked out who I am, what I want and where I want to be. I feel and look the healthiest I have ever felt - this is a huge breakthrough. My relationship with Jack still as strong as ever, but I have found a new love for myself. Fitness and health now takes huge precedence in my life, I take in to account my calories, my workouts, my nutrition and put my health first every single time.
I feel I have a new lease of life, and a new outlook where I am extremely optimistic.
Motivation, self love and worth is all I needed to find, and well, I found it. I have been thinking about making this blog post for a while, I have written it numerous times only to find myself deleting it over again. Trying to make you understand why I abandoned you all for months is so hard but I hope I have explained myself well. Below I am going to include a picture of myself, a picture that is my trophy, or the cover photo for this new, healthy chapter of my life.
So, as with life, I want to bring these 3 C's back in to my blogging world. One that had to be paused in order for its development. After all, my blog is my outlet and a way of expressing myself. To be outing myself as a pessimistic and unhealthily comfortable woman is something that doesn't lend well to commitment or satisfaction for both parties.
Those of you who have followed and read my blog from the start, I will be adapting it to not merely beauty and lifestyle but also food, health and fitness. It is something I am passionate about and something I would love to pass on to you guys. A healthy body is a healthy mind.
So here I am Sophisiticates I return with a vengeance, stronger and more powerful than ever!
I still love you all so much
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My Top 5 Winter Warmers
It's that time of year again, people call it Autumn, but it really feels like its on the verge of a bitter winter! The clocks have gone back, its getting dark in the day - and you're just feeling let down that the summer promised was not as expected.
However, I am here to pick you up out of this ditch and give you my TOP 5 winter warmers - what I love during the winter - food, clothes and general!
Its closer to CHRISTMAS! Christmas is my favourite time of year and my Mum and I always run down to the garden centre to see the new stock! We first went a couple of weeks ago, this seems strange as it is october!!! But we left feeling all jittery and christmassy!
2.
Hot water bottles - Yes i know hot water bottles can be used all throughout the year. But in winter
it really lives up to its purpose! I like to warm it up and put it in my bed about 15 minutes before I go up to sleep! It's like your cosying up on a radiator!
3.
Shops - When winter hits, the shops go crazy with their christmas festivities - talking santa's and
polar bears everywhere you look!
4.
Candles - Lighting a christmas/winter yankee candle feels so much more exciting then lighting a yankee candle on any other type of day. Christmas cookie is my ultimate favourite! Its so nice to be cosey by the flickering candles while outside is dark and merky - move moment!
5.
Duvet - Who am I kidding? My duvet is my best friend throughout the whole year. But in winter it
just seems to satisfy me that little bit more! There is nothing better than turning yourself into a
cacoon/crepe/wrap and surround yourself with cosey lovliness.
Winter food means one thing - CHRISTMAS DINNER! The most exciting meal of the year.
Christmas day is the one day of year where you can eat until you feel sick and not feel guilty.
Pigs in blankets, stuffing, roasties, parsnips.... mouth it dribbling while I write this!
2.
White Chocolate hot chocolate - "options" do a sachet of white chocolate hot chocolate. You can add it straight to hot water or hot milk. I warm milk up in the microwave and stir in one sachet.
Heaven in a glass! Perfect for those chilly winter evenings! As a plus, the sachets are also catered to those of you who are watching your weight and contain less calories.
3.
Turkey Soup - every year after christmas, my Mum makes a turkey soup out of the turkey left over. We only have this once a year, and my anticipation for it grows significantly as we get closer to December/January. It is SOOO yummy! Soup as a whole is just perfect for winter, warming your insides!
4.
Chocolate - I find that the winter season offers a perfect excuse to eat chocolate. Like I have said previously, christmas day offers the perfect day for chocolate galore! We only ever get that much chocolate at christmas - selection boxes!
5.
Casserole - You can't go wrong with a good ol' casserole or stew. If you're anything like my Mum you leave them to stew for hours and hours. It fills the house with the most beautiful scent leaving you almost gagging for the dinner. A casserole really warms you up and we call it in our family "winter food" or "rainy food". If you don't quite fancy cooking a casserole yourself, how about try Heinz's range - "the BIG soup" - they have versions of casseroles and stews in a pot you can stick
in the microwave.
The Fleecy PJ's from Primark - I bought my first pair of these a couple of weeks ago. Safe to
say, I LIVE in them. You have probably seen them in my blog - but are leapord print trousers with a black fleecy long sleeved top with a leapord print bow. They are SO comfy and cosey. I would wear them every day if I could.
2.
Tights and boots - with shorts, skirts or dresses, tights and boots are just an awesome fashion piece.
Warm and cosey, but remaining stylish and on trend - tights and boots allow you to flaunt you
summer clothing without getting a sniffly nose!
3.
Winter Coat - It's always so exciting when you go shopping for your new winter coat. There are so
many options this year! I am loving the fur lined hoods and cuffs! We all end up wearing this coat everyday so it is really important you get the one you LOVE.
4.
Cosey socks - whether it's knee high socks or fuzzy slipper socks, socks in the winter really do not
let you down. I wear knee high socks with my boots and fold the top over - I love the look this gives. Anytime I am in the house, I will wear either slipper socks or slippers - I have some shaped like a cat from primark (£4) - so cosey!
5.
Dressing Gown - In the winter I find myself putting my dressing gown over my clothes! Nothing drowning yourself in all its fluffiness!
I have noticed that there are a lot of references to sleeping here! - duvet, dressing gown, pj's, slippers! Winter is definately a lazy season for me, I love cosying up in front of the fire with a nice book!
What are your favourite winter warmers?
However, I am here to pick you up out of this ditch and give you my TOP 5 winter warmers - what I love during the winter - food, clothes and general!
General
1.Its closer to CHRISTMAS! Christmas is my favourite time of year and my Mum and I always run down to the garden centre to see the new stock! We first went a couple of weeks ago, this seems strange as it is october!!! But we left feeling all jittery and christmassy!
2.
Hot water bottles - Yes i know hot water bottles can be used all throughout the year. But in winter
it really lives up to its purpose! I like to warm it up and put it in my bed about 15 minutes before I go up to sleep! It's like your cosying up on a radiator!
3.
Shops - When winter hits, the shops go crazy with their christmas festivities - talking santa's and
polar bears everywhere you look!
4.
Candles - Lighting a christmas/winter yankee candle feels so much more exciting then lighting a yankee candle on any other type of day. Christmas cookie is my ultimate favourite! Its so nice to be cosey by the flickering candles while outside is dark and merky - move moment!
5.
Duvet - Who am I kidding? My duvet is my best friend throughout the whole year. But in winter it
just seems to satisfy me that little bit more! There is nothing better than turning yourself into a
cacoon/crepe/wrap and surround yourself with cosey lovliness.
Food
1.Winter food means one thing - CHRISTMAS DINNER! The most exciting meal of the year.
Christmas day is the one day of year where you can eat until you feel sick and not feel guilty.
Pigs in blankets, stuffing, roasties, parsnips.... mouth it dribbling while I write this!
2.
White Chocolate hot chocolate - "options" do a sachet of white chocolate hot chocolate. You can add it straight to hot water or hot milk. I warm milk up in the microwave and stir in one sachet.
Heaven in a glass! Perfect for those chilly winter evenings! As a plus, the sachets are also catered to those of you who are watching your weight and contain less calories.
3.
Turkey Soup - every year after christmas, my Mum makes a turkey soup out of the turkey left over. We only have this once a year, and my anticipation for it grows significantly as we get closer to December/January. It is SOOO yummy! Soup as a whole is just perfect for winter, warming your insides!
4.
Chocolate - I find that the winter season offers a perfect excuse to eat chocolate. Like I have said previously, christmas day offers the perfect day for chocolate galore! We only ever get that much chocolate at christmas - selection boxes!
5.
Casserole - You can't go wrong with a good ol' casserole or stew. If you're anything like my Mum you leave them to stew for hours and hours. It fills the house with the most beautiful scent leaving you almost gagging for the dinner. A casserole really warms you up and we call it in our family "winter food" or "rainy food". If you don't quite fancy cooking a casserole yourself, how about try Heinz's range - "the BIG soup" - they have versions of casseroles and stews in a pot you can stick
in the microwave.
Clothes
1.The Fleecy PJ's from Primark - I bought my first pair of these a couple of weeks ago. Safe to
say, I LIVE in them. You have probably seen them in my blog - but are leapord print trousers with a black fleecy long sleeved top with a leapord print bow. They are SO comfy and cosey. I would wear them every day if I could.
2.
Tights and boots - with shorts, skirts or dresses, tights and boots are just an awesome fashion piece.
Warm and cosey, but remaining stylish and on trend - tights and boots allow you to flaunt you
summer clothing without getting a sniffly nose!
3.
Winter Coat - It's always so exciting when you go shopping for your new winter coat. There are so
many options this year! I am loving the fur lined hoods and cuffs! We all end up wearing this coat everyday so it is really important you get the one you LOVE.
4.
Cosey socks - whether it's knee high socks or fuzzy slipper socks, socks in the winter really do not
let you down. I wear knee high socks with my boots and fold the top over - I love the look this gives. Anytime I am in the house, I will wear either slipper socks or slippers - I have some shaped like a cat from primark (£4) - so cosey!
5.
Dressing Gown - In the winter I find myself putting my dressing gown over my clothes! Nothing drowning yourself in all its fluffiness!
I have noticed that there are a lot of references to sleeping here! - duvet, dressing gown, pj's, slippers! Winter is definately a lazy season for me, I love cosying up in front of the fire with a nice book!
What are your favourite winter warmers?
High Budget vs. Low Budget
Recently, I have been taking an interest in looking at items from asos and finding replica's for almost half the price. This is extremely relevant to me, as, like most of you, I am on a student budget and can rarely find the cash to spend £50 on a pair of socks. I have put together some of my best finds for you in this post :
Two Tone Socks -
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| Two Tone socks from the Sonia range. You can buy them here. £45.00 |
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| Two tone socks You can buy them here £1.42 |
| Envelope clutch bag selection. You can buy it here. £13.00 |
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| Envelope clutch bag. You can buy it here. £18.00 |
| Black wedges You can buy them here £16.99 |
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| Dune, black wedges. You can buy them here. £85.00 |
Here are just snippets of things I have found on the wonderful site that is Ebay! If any of you would like me to find something then let me know.
Happy Bargain Hunting!
Letting Off Steam
What I really needed this week was a night out with my girls, have the chance to put my extensions in, lashes and heels on and let off steam. It was exactly what the Dr ordered!
The wine and cocktails were flowing and the giggles had returned.
The wine and cocktails were flowing and the giggles had returned.
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My Outfit :
Bralet - Primark £14 (I think)
Black skater skirt - Miss Selfridge £14
Black belt with gold adornment - Primark £3.00
Black skater skirt - Miss Selfridge £14
Black belt with gold adornment - Primark £3.00
Nude platform shoes - Forever 21 £17.00
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| Being silly with my ladies |
Golf?.. Nah Shoes!
I was at a Gala day last week with my boyfriend and his family. Unknowingly, they had included me in a raffle. It is a known fact in my family that I always win raffles, so it was unsurprising when I heard my name above the mutter of voices.
Out of all the wonderful prizes, such as, hotel stays/holidays, I won a game of golf for 4 at a local golf club. Don't get me wrong, I am extremely grateful to have had the opportunity to win but my exclamation of "I don't even play golf!" let everyone know what I was thinking. There were, in turn, a few giggles at my expense.
But my boyfriend, the avid golfer he is, offered to take the prize and buy me something in exchange. What did I choose? SHOES of course!
We are going away on holiday on July 16th to Morocco and I desperately wanted some wedges to accompany me! It didn't take me long to find after I knew they would be free!
Locally, we have a store named Outfit which stock, Topshop, Miss Selfridge, Warehouse and Dorothy Perkins. Having a casual look around, I spotted out of the corner of my eye the most beautiful coral wedges I have ever seen! They were absolutely PERFECT and so lush! I toddled over, between running and walking while trying not to look like an over excited seal and tried them on straight away.
I had totally made my mind up and at £45 I thought they were such a bargain! Of course I text my boyfriend straight away - and the next day they were mine!
I have worn them everyday since and they are one of the few shoes I can wear all night/day without having to turn to flipflops or dolly shoes for rescue!
Take a look ! -
Out of all the wonderful prizes, such as, hotel stays/holidays, I won a game of golf for 4 at a local golf club. Don't get me wrong, I am extremely grateful to have had the opportunity to win but my exclamation of "I don't even play golf!" let everyone know what I was thinking. There were, in turn, a few giggles at my expense.
But my boyfriend, the avid golfer he is, offered to take the prize and buy me something in exchange. What did I choose? SHOES of course!
We are going away on holiday on July 16th to Morocco and I desperately wanted some wedges to accompany me! It didn't take me long to find after I knew they would be free!
Locally, we have a store named Outfit which stock, Topshop, Miss Selfridge, Warehouse and Dorothy Perkins. Having a casual look around, I spotted out of the corner of my eye the most beautiful coral wedges I have ever seen! They were absolutely PERFECT and so lush! I toddled over, between running and walking while trying not to look like an over excited seal and tried them on straight away.
I had totally made my mind up and at £45 I thought they were such a bargain! Of course I text my boyfriend straight away - and the next day they were mine!
I have worn them everyday since and they are one of the few shoes I can wear all night/day without having to turn to flipflops or dolly shoes for rescue!
Take a look ! -
| Miss Selfridge, coral wedges, size 6 |
| £45 |
You have mail!
My long awaited Ebay purchases have finally arrived and I couldn't wait to show you my goodies!!
1. I have a skater skirt similar to this in black and after looking everywhere in the shops to no success, I decided to turn to Ebay. I am going to wear this high-waisted so it will come to about 4 inches above the knee. It has an elasticated waistband ensuring it has a comfortable fit, and beautiful black patent belt. The material is a rich cotton and relatively thick meaning its not see through!! You can find this skirt in many different colours from this seller . At £7.99 the value is fabulous, and the cheap price does not match the garment in quality. It was delivering in less than a week - so very reliable. I LOVE this skirt and can't wait to pair it with a Bandeau when I go out, or a Tshirt for a casual look. What would you pair it with?
2. I have finally given into the trend and bought a sideways cross ring. I managed to find an Ebay seller through Victoria's blog. (Check it out, she is the total Ebay guru!). Again, this was delivered at lightening speed - so impressed. This ring is available from this seller. It is adjustable which means the ring can fit on any pair of your fingers. I also find that my fingers change size at different times of the year - Does anyone else get that? I'd love to know, just to clarify I am not some kind of mutant!
3. I have had bad luck with phone covers and if your anything like me it is essential you have one. I am so clumsy I drop my phone at least once a day. I purchased my last cover from one of the market stalls in my local town about 5 months ago - however, the back started to peel off and look quite tacky. It was definitely time I got a new one! I was looking for one that was understated and "mature" - if I can describe it like that! I thought this cover was beautiful and took influence from Gucci/Louis Vuitton-esque. Its leather style back was exactly what I was looking for. You can get ones similar to these from here.
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